Saturday, December 14, 2013

Remembering Where We Are




Remembering Where We Are

The current events within the last year have provided much to be confused about for the American citizen. The government shutdown, Obamacare, Syria, and not too long ago we had the crisis in Libya. While most of us are carrying on with our lives and may take a brief interest in America’s foreign policy issues, the fact is we still have men and women fighting the continuing war in Afghanistan. Maybe it’s overwhelming to keep up with all the news; there’s so much information out there. However, when I hear of those who don’t know whether or not America has forces fighting overseas, it’s very disheartening as a veteran myself. As a nation that has a military that defends our freedom and fights for the freedoms of others in the world, we should care to know when and where our military is operating. 
In 2009, I deployed with the 32nd Infantry Brigade Combat Team to Iraq. So I know firsthand what it’s like to be away from home for a year, in a hostile environment where your presence is not necessarily seen as a positive contribution. The heat, the substandard living conditions, the stress of knowing you won’t see your family or friends for a long time. These are things that you don’t really appreciate until you’re in the situation.  I was lucky to have been working with a team of great soldiers, and I forged some lifelong friendships. When you’re across the world and away from everything familiar to you, it’s who you have next to you that matters, and that’s about all that does. As a U.S. soldier, it’s known that you represent more than just yourself. You represent a group, an organization, a force that is held to the highest standards and are trained to uphold the values of a free and sovereign nation.  To volunteer and serve, to put your life in harm’s way, to be willing to stand up for those that can’t or won’t, it’s a serious commitment. And those that are still over there should be remembered daily.
It’s true that the war in Afghanistan has not been a popular one. However, it must be asked, what does that mean exactly? There hasn’t been a “popular” war since WWII, when we had an American nation fully in support of the war effort. Since then, the Cold War, Vietnam, the Gulf War, and any other military efforts of the U.S. have not been considered “popular” by the American people. In fact, there have been large differences in opinion when it comes to the U.S. military overseas. The latest numbers from PollingReport.com show that when people were asked whether the war in Afghanistan was worth fighting or not, only 39% said it was while 56% said it was not. Fair enough, we’re all entitled to our opinions. I’m not asking the people to blindly follow the country’s Foreign Policy procedures and/or actions.  What about the financial cost of war? True, it’s expensive. According to the National Priorities Project, we (the tax payers) have spent over $665 billion in Afghanistan alone, since 2001.

While there are many valid concerns with how our country operates, to include foreign policy, national security, and tax payer spending, we should not neglect those who are willing to pay the ultimate sacrifice for our freedoms. The men and women of our U.S. military are a volunteer force, who deserves our recognition. The war is continuing in Afghanistan. Just because the U.S. has withdrawn a number of troops from the area, doesn’t mean we aren’t still losing men and women of our military to the war. For those of you in the desert, for those who put their lives on the line, for those who are sacrificing for this country, I am with you. I will remember you and your efforts. I am continually concerned for your well being. I wish you a safe return home. I am always grateful for your service to this nation, and I hope my fellow Americans feel the same.

Friday, October 4, 2013

Today

There will be times, there will be days, there will be weeks...
Not everything you feel and not everything you think...
Sometimes you are truly alone
What will you do?
I will adapt and overcome. Every time.
I have been through enough to know
It's not impossible
Today is today
Do the best with what you have


Wednesday, February 27, 2013

And Then I Stopped Caring

This will be a pointless rant of an entry. I think it's fair to forewarn anyone reading this ahead of time.

First, let me just say: I don't like when radio show hosts say things like, "..now this is a good segue.." Um, you just ruined it. And now I'm annoyed.

On to the next segment.

I find myself in a negative mood often. I am referring to the last two weeks. Typically I try to keep a level head , and do so without much difficulty. However, now the difficulty level has been raised as of late. My belief as to why has to do with a multitude of "things" and circumstance(s).
     I find it somewhat depressing that just about anyone I consider a friend seems to have little to no interest in my life. Obviously this reeks of self-loathing. Although nonetheless, it remains true. I have two main pieces of evidence for this conclusion. 1) I receive hardly any texts at all outside from the handful of people I communicate with regularly. No, "Hey, how are you?", "What's new?", and of course not, "Wanna hang out?". To be clear, I don't spend any time feeling sorry for myself. Especially over this. I simply want to convey the concern and frustration that can occur within the social realm. And with that, I am reminded of my second piece of evidence. The wretched Facebook. A simple website of social media that has been bastardized many times over. It may be the doom of the Millenium generation. I digress, that subject is for another time.  
      Yes, even the lack of response or communication in general, is concerning. Isn't that what it's for? To communicate with others? Your, "friends"? Ha. Yeah right. Maybe that was the innocent (and genius) idea that propelled it into being. But now, Facebook is for the narcissist. Let them read about your life. Oh how quirky, cute, artsy, and cool you are. Take pictures of yourself and pretend you didn't expect a compliment of some sort. Post hundreds of agonizingly mundane links to pictures of animals and unoriginal quotes. Fuck off. You social media parasites. 
      In closing, I would just like to review.. I text people, who I consider friends, and receive no response at all. How, in this time, is that ever okay? I try to stay in touch and remain involved in my friends lives but it is not reciprocated. Regardless of what they say to my face, or how I "feel", it's true. So, with that, I conclude this entry. I would like to thank you for reading this. No need to comment, or tell me you read this. I appreciate it all the same. Maybe one day things will change. Change for the better. 

"The more things change, the more they stay the same." - Jean-Baptiste Alphonse Karr